

Mr. Rogers is a lot more tolerant than I. Perhaps he grew up in an apartment building, with loud, drug-dealing/doing neighbors on one side, a weirdo on the other side who has his TV on ALL night--very loudly--so loudly in fact that we move into the dining room (really) and above him, giants. I, however, grew up in a peaceful farming community where anyone within a two mile radius was my "neighbor". And the further away, the better the neighbor :) I had no idea most people DO NOT grow up this way.
Anya has had some adjustments being back from visiting my parent's house. She is scared of the noises upstairs. She covers her ears and hides. Before our trip, we got new upstairs neighbors. I really thought they must be related to Goliath. But I saw them, and they are normal sized, just "heavy-footed" and love to vacuum once a day--at about 11pm. Within a few days of their arrival, Anya asked on a bright clear day, "Mommy, is that thunder?" after listening to them walk around above us. I said, "No, that's just our neighbors above us walking around." To this she said, "Oh, is it just kinda like thunder?" Oh well, I'm sure we make up for it with crying children in the middle of the night (and day).
Now that I've vented, there are certain advantages about apartment living. No yard work. Maintained pools. Gym. Free grill use. Nice walking trail. Nothing is ours--grape juice on the carpet, crayons on the walls, no big deal. Fridge breaks, ask for a new one. Make a hole in the wall, oh well, no deposit back. No worries about selling it when we leave. And the best of all--I can almost vacuum the whole place from one outlet!